This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are: Anyone who does not do what is right is not a child of God; nor is anyone who does not love his brother. 1 John 3:10
One things for sure, God would never stop loving or walk away from us because of something we did or did not do. We have to grasp that same mentality when it comes to our spouse, put on the mind of Christ, and understand that our spouse is not perfect. We are two imperfect people, in an imperfect world, trying to pursue a Godly marriage.
We can not be so quick to give up when God is charging us to stay in the race. Just think of the many times you hurt God feelings, yet He is still there. Or the many times you neglected to spend time with Him, yet when you did come around, He received you. Today, show a little compassion toward your spouse. Today might be the day your marriage changes for the better. Stay in the race for your marriage!!!
Owe nothing to anyone, except for your obligation to love one another. If you love your neighbor, you will fulfill the requirements of God’s law. Romans 13:8